I got this article from @IslamicThinking , i just can’t help but save it, because it’s too worth to slip by…
♥ It’s from the inadequacy of a person to be concerned only with personal gratification and satisfaction.
♥ Do you suffer from face-addiction ? Or do you seek beauty in the imperfections of a person ?
♥ You may know what you are looking for in a partner, but are you aware of what YOU have to offer ?
♥ Allah likens spouses to a garment, thus know and understand it consists of imperfections.
♥ Men and Women are different: understand this for effective communication and know differences to cohabit.
♥ Marriage is a partnership not a competition between two people: it should establish an equilibrium.
♥ Falling in love is easy, sustaining that requires effort and for it to be coupled with mercy.
♥ We marry to create a comfortable space for individual and collective growth both emotionally and spiritually.
♥ Too often we forget that marriage is a union between two personalities, not a correctional institution.
♥ Finding a partner is only the very beginning, sustaining the marriage is what defines it.